Sex-offender, living next to a single mother of two children under 5-years-old

November 13, 2010 16:12 pm · 125 comments

This morning we received an email from a single mother of two children under five-years-old. She told us a registered sex offender was in the process of moving in next door to her and her children.

The sex-offender, who will remain unnamed, is convicted of continuous sexual abuse of a child & lewd acts with a child under 14-years of age.

The woman is obviously upset, and when she tried to talk to the owner of the home where the sex-offender is moving into, he simply told her the man already served his time in prison and we should trust him.

If you were a single mother of two children under 5-years-old, what would you do if a registered sex-offender moved in next door to you and your family?

101 When I was a kid in the November 14, 2010 at 10:37 AM

late 60’s we all knew where the neighborhood perv lived, and some of my friends didn’t mind going over there to get felt up because he gave them bikes, and other expensive presents, and cash.

Who knows how far he took it, but a few of the neighbor kids loved the percs of having a sugar daddy perv on the corner– and all the pervs patrons were pre-teen boys smitten with the lavish gifts and cash.

102 Anon November 14, 2010 at 10:51 AM

Wow, there are 5 registered sex offenders living in those Lotus Apartments. Those guys must throw one hell of a party!

103 Anon November 14, 2010 at 10:54 AM

Had Enough – #53

“I just googled Megan’s Law a known register on my street. So if they can’t live within 2000 feet of a school, by what means by car, foot, etc? I only ask because this guy can jump on the Iron Horse Trail and get to a well known high school and elementary school within 2-3 minutes by foot. Just sayin’”

You do of course realize that a foot is a measure of distance and not time thus the method and rate of travel has no bearing?

104 Anon November 14, 2010 at 10:56 AM

Had Enough – #53

“I just googled Megan’s Law a known register on my street. So if they can’t live within 2000 feet of a school, by what means by car, foot, etc? I only ask because this guy can jump on the Iron Horse Trail and get to a well known high school and elementary school within 2-3 minutes by foot. Just sayin’”

You do of course realize that a foot is a measure of distance and not time thus the method of travel has no bearing?

105 blondy! November 14, 2010 at 11:43 AM

all she needs to do is inform all the neighbors and they all stick together and tourture the crap out of him until he moves, screw that. hes a menace to society and deserves no rights. ruin his life!!!!!

106 Please use your head November 14, 2010 at 11:50 AM

lewd and lascivious adj., adv. references to conduct which includes people living together who are known not to be married, entertainment which aims at arousing the libido or primarily sexual sensation, open solicitation for prostitution, or indecent exposure of genitalia (which is itself a crime). Due to the tendency of judges to be overly careful in writing about moral and/or sexual matters the definitions have been cloaked in old-fashioned modesty. Today the term usually applies to pornography, prostitution, and indecent acts.

Not defending the guy but who knows if he actually touched any kids? For all you know he could have flashed his junk or whatever.. I know its hard to comprehend because most of you are incapable of seeing past the initial threat.

Not to say the guy wont do it again or anything but just from the indicated charged it can mean alot more than actual intercourse with a minor.

All that aside theres nothing the lady can do, if hes served his time and is on parole or probation then hes a free man, he still needs to register and keep in contact with his PO. If hes doing everything that he needs to as required by his charges and probation then he is currently in the following the rules of his release.

Some people do change, Im sure theres alot of you that have had a DUI or used to use drugs, maybe not similar to molestation but all the same there would be countless people that stated you would never change and you did.

107 Want some candy November 14, 2010 at 12:00 PM

What’s everybody so scared of, at least he’s registered. Better than a non registered pervert.

108 warbirds45 November 14, 2010 at 12:51 PM

The prison system can tell you how to solve the problem, years ago 6 women got together and raped a rapist, used a large nail to keep his baby maker vertical!

109 ANon November 14, 2010 at 5:59 PM


I’m sorry, but it’s the truth. Children who are abused often become abusers themselves. It’s a pattern that’s hard to break. In all likelihood, the abuser we’re talking about on this thread was sexually abused as a child.

At some point we stop feeling sorry for the victim when he becomes the abuser.

110 Really? November 14, 2010 at 6:31 PM

Well, I personally know a teenager that has lied about sexual abuse to get back at another person and has admiited she lied to everyone but the police-she thinks it is funny and proud of herself for having so much power over someone else life and NO Im not the offender, Im related to the girl and he will most likely be convicted because they ALWAYS take the child’s word over the alleged offender and if this is happening in this case than how many other ppl are being wrongfully accused and convicted-Im all for geeting the perverts off the street but really? all you ppl writing these things and being so sanctimonious-Ill bet my next 10 pay checks some of you are related to offenders, they might even be living in your house and you dont know it yet-any one of you can be accused and boy oh boy will you be singing a way different tune-false accusations can and will ruin lives-just watch your kids and teach them to ALWAYS tell the truth-good and bad.

111 Anon November 14, 2010 at 7:00 PM

To those of you who are making light of this sexual predator, you should check out and read some of the conversations that these sickos carry on with people who they believe are young children

112 Money November 14, 2010 at 7:31 PM

Champagnekitty, they are everywhere!!! Whether they are an uncle or a grandpa with a penchant for 5 year olds, or rapists of young women, You can’t swing a dead possum and not find one in close proximity.
After reading an article that stated that pedophiles, because of the law that they can’t live within 1 mile or so within a school, they can’t find housing and become transients and are more difficult to track. Just be vigilant, educate your kids and the community and don’t be afraid to speak out…..

113 Raven November 14, 2010 at 8:25 PM

When it’s a known fact that paroled sex offenders repeat their crimes. Why are their genitals not removed for raping the young and old? It sickens me how many men the world over rape boys and girls. How many of our woman and childeren must be sold into sex slavery, before we take a stand against this. I wish we had a death penelty for these kinds of crimes. A death penalty that happens quickly, not where they rot on it.
Harsh maybe, but ask yourself, Harsh because your a man..or not harsh enough because you or someone you know has been there.

114 Daddy of two November 14, 2010 at 9:39 PM

Dont worry about a thing when the loser moves there re post this with your address and I will tell the waste of life he has to move no joke

115 Barbara November 15, 2010 at 10:24 AM

“The man already served his time in prison and we should trust him.”

Uh-huh … Why should “we” trust him? Because he learned “different strokes from different folks?” Hail no, dude. You’re Allied Waste material.

116 The Mamba November 15, 2010 at 12:04 PM

Move, that’s what you do. You find a way somehow to pack up and get your kids the hell out of there.

117 Babs November 15, 2010 at 12:27 PM

You are adding to the victim’s pain. To label a victim as a future abuser is a terrible thing. And the numbers aren’t there, either. I have a relative that was abused and that is a awful label to put on some kid.

Rape victimes do not go on to rape other people. Ask all the victims of the Catholic priests.

118 the posse November 15, 2010 at 12:49 PM

there are way and social methods that will let a peerson know, he is not welcomed and the lady is right, in not wanting this guy next door . to the owner next door ,shame on you and what do and him have in common ?

119 Anon November 15, 2010 at 12:49 PM

Feel for the mother in this case and all the neighbors. No such thing as a “reformed” sex offender. The neighbors might want to consider getting a lawyer and going after the homeowner. There are some laws on the books that homeowners have liability with regard to neighborhood safety. Just the threat of a lawsuit might be enough to scare off the landlord.

120 Jim Beam November 15, 2010 at 1:50 PM

Why do we let these guys out in the general prison population instead of spending our tax dollars on special care cells. I would get a gun then give him a bullet and say the next one he won’t see coming if he came near my house or children. Write a letter to Boxer ask what she would do.

121 Charles-the-cat November 15, 2010 at 2:01 PM

@The Mamba – It’s safer for her to stay in her current neighborhood where her kids are known, and where everybody knows about the incoming bad guy. If she moves, she and her kids are strangers to everybody and a neighborhoods’ worth of support and protection are lost.

122 Get Neighbors Involved November 15, 2010 at 2:13 PM

We had 2 sex offenders in our neighborhood. A few of us in the neighborhood went around door-to-door and talked to our neighbors, gave out flyers to let them know the address of the houses, what the guys looked like and to report any strange activity to the police asap. I think it helped because everyone seemed to watch them like hawks and then within 3 years both offenders had moved out. I wish her luck. I’m sure she will be on high alert and all will be okay – as long as the other neighbors know, I think it will help a lot!

123 Atticus Thraxx November 15, 2010 at 4:52 PM

I’m not reading 122 posts, apologize if someone has already provided. Who you need to talk to is Deanne Gillespie (

CPD’s OffenderWatch program link can be found here:

124 rt November 15, 2010 at 7:55 PM

Concord, ‘where families come first’

125 Sundevil November 16, 2010 at 8:51 PM

Everyone with kids should look up the megans law website. You can copy and past the pistures onto a word format and then print the pictues up. Post it up somewhere like the fridge, that way you see the faces of the people in your neighborhood that are sex offenders and will recognize them walking around. Your kids will also be able to identify them and can let you know if the offender tries to contact them, and then call the PD.

Also, the 2,0000 proximity to schools doesn’t have any teeth. It says that they can’t be there, but doesn’t have any punishment for them being there. I guess a “tsk, tsk” will do. The law looks like it was written as a knee jerk reaction and a way to mollify the public.

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